To Answer a "question".........
question still wants to know, "don't you check out and pass on some guys who are real schlubs?; guys who are messy; guys who don't take care of their skin and teeth..."?Women and men are very similar on this subject. We are totally obsessed with the way one another looks. The difference is men don't show our obsession like you do. We don't have to wear makeup. We don't have to dick around with our hair. We don't have to get all "dolled" up. All we have to do is brush our teeth, comb our hair and we are good to go. If we don't do that, you SHOULD kick us to the curb. The very least you deserve is for us to be presentable -- so much so that you could reasonably take us out with your friends and not be embarrassed to be seen with us in public. The only time we should be sloppy is when we are home alone with you after we have been dating for quite some time. Remember, at the end of the day, appearance does mean A LOT.
(Especially when it comes to my awesome new collar),
Ike (and Nigel)
Signed, Sealed and Delivered by Nigel and Ike at 12:23 AM
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umm... that wasn't actually a question.. that was a quote from YOUR response to me... regarding my previous question..... and then a self kick in the ass because no matter how hard i try from my end, i end up looking like i just rolled out of bed... but thanks anyway
I have to keep a tighter leash on Ike. He just doesn't read that well.-N.V.
right. i'm going to come up with at least one more question here so that i can be in consideration for the "chicks with cool questions" category. this is, to a certain extent, not totally different from the previous question (or non question - whatever). just how far does confidence go in comparison to being physically hot? maybe better said: my body doesn't look like the chicas on tv or the movies with maybe the exception of queen latifa. so, taking into consideration that i tend to carry myself rather well and am (usually) quite presentable, just how much of a hurdle is not being a skinny-bean from dude-ville's perspective?
i think i'm also responding to seeing my guy friend watching lots of boobie movies (ones with jenny mccarthy's and pamela anderson's) this past weekend. that, and most of the women my size i see with guys a lot heftier or wicked taller. i'm just out of my element here. opinions welcome.
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