question checks out packages
Aaaah. The age-old question from question."if guys really don't care about the outer package, why do they always pick the girl w/ the perfect outfit & makeup vs the girl comfortable w/ her own unadorned face in a t-shirt & jeans?????"
Oh no. We are extremely snobby and judgmental. We care about that outer-package so much that we always look you up-and-down before we decide if we want to even think about hearing what you have to say. Dr. J and I just has a discussion about this where she maintained that you have to get through the book's cover before you can dive into the book. I happen to agree with this, even though I was raised to believe otherwise. That being said, you have to consider your options. Women love options, and men can often be confused if offered options. So, unfortunately you have to make yourself look the best. Don't be sloppy. Don't just splash on some makeup. Don't make a mess of yourself. Show us that you care, because a woman who cares about her appearance is more likely to care about herself in other areas of her life. By the way, don't you check out and pass on some guys who are real schlubs?; guys who are messy; guys who don't take care of their skin and teeth??? It's a level playing field here, and, to us, it sounds like you just have to remember to keep it real.
Always,
Ike and Nigel.
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don't you check out and pass on some guys who are real schlubs?; guys who are messy; guys who don't take care of their skin and teeth
ok, there IS a difference between guy who isn't ironed & starched vs guy who is missing some teeth....
it just sucks... i am one of those girls who, no matter HOW LONG i take to get ready in the morning, no matter how much product i use: w/in 2 hours i look like i have been thru a tornado!... ok, so its not QUITE that bad... but there are days...
my hair decideds it's going to do what it wants, no matter what i put in it... my makeup disapears - or worse, slides off... my clothing gets wrinkeled (even the "wrinkle resistant" stuff).. plus, i'm a klutz - the harder i try to be careful, the more likely i'm going to spill or draw on myself...
oh well....
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