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Is Blue Really Blue?

Welcome back, amigos. So far the response to our new blog has been fantastic. Look for major improvements as soon as possible. And please, remember to send your friends here. The more the merrier. Today, we received an e-mail question from BlueLoverGirl. She asks, "I am cute and drive a very cute convertible car. I am also a professional and educated woman. Why is that every grease-pit, toothless, unattractive man in town wants to honk, yell, heckle and whistle from their beat-up, run-down jallopies, but the professional, attractive, well-put-together man in his nice car doesn't even give me a side glance??"

This is another one of those questions we gave great thought to, and here is our answer;

1. The less desirable men look at you as a challenge -- a rung up the ladder of sorts. You are also more of a sexual object to them (on a higher plane) because that is what they are used to. They are used to judging a woman by her "sexual value". If you are hot, professional and drive a nice car, your rating soars. To "get you" would be the ultimate feat. They would brag about it to their friends. The stories would run rampant through town. Your name, in effect, would be mud.

That leads us to this:

2. Professional men view you as being on the same plane. They are slightly threatened by that because they know you can out-hustle them in every aspect of life. Obviously, the last thing they want to do is get outhustled -- especially by a competent, attractive woman... especially if it ends up in the bedroom. These men, contrary to the men above, would be ashamed to have their friends know that you "outplayed" them. These men are in more of a game with you than the other men. These men have more to lose, while the others have everything to gain.

Thanks again for visiting.
Nigel and Ike.

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